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An interview with Debbs Murray on coercive control
In this 10-minute interview with Te Puna Aonui, ECLIPSE Founder Debbs Murray discusses coercive control and the work of ECLIPSE.

Braden Clark
5 days ago1 min read
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Under His Command Documentary
A month or so ago, I was incredibly lucky to sit with someone I admire deeply, John Campbell, a truly humble, gentle and real human. The...

Debbs Murray
Apr 302 min read
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Primary Victim or Victim-Survivor? Context Matters
What's the difference between primary victim and victim-survivor? How do these terms influence practice?

Braden Clark
Apr 88 min read
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Debbs shares her story of family violence with Nix
Watch Debbs speak to CWK Nix as part of her Let Me Speak Campaign about Domestic Violence

Braden Clark
Oct 24, 20241 min read
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Walking on Eggshells: Understanding Coercive Control
This is a really powerful and informative 16 minute video of coercive control, what it looks like, feels like and the kinds of behaviours to

Debbs Murray
Sep 20, 20241 min read
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Family Violence - Messages in a Minute - Coercive Control - What to look for
Learn more about how to ask others if they are experiencing family violence.

Debbs Murray
Apr 15, 20242 min read
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Family violence resources - statistics, suicide, and violence within whānau Māori
Check out these great family violence resources relating to suicide, family violence statistics, and violence within whānau Māori

Debbs Murray
Apr 13, 20242 min read
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Family Violence - Messages in a Minute - Coercive Control Tactics
Watch this video from our Family Violence Messages in a Minute series on the tactics of coercive control

Debbs Murray
Apr 8, 20242 min read
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Family Violence - Messages in a Minute - Coercive Control
Watch Debbs Murray talk about coercive control in our Family Violence - Messages in a Minute series

Debbs Murray
Apr 2, 20242 min read
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Australian principles to address coercive control
Australia has developed principles to address coercive control. We need similar principles in Aotearoa New Zealand

Debbs Murray
Mar 19, 20242 min read
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Breaking Silence Series 3: ECLIPSE Family Violence Services
ECLIPSE featured in the Breaking Silence Series 3

Debbs Murray
Mar 8, 20242 min read
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Breaking Silence Series 3: Trinity
Breaking Silence is a series of videos by Magentic Pictures which tells the powerful stories of those affected by domestic violence and...

Debbs Murray
Feb 27, 20241 min read
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Multi-faceted Entrapment: A deeper understanding of coercive control
It's important we also explore how systemic and structural entrapment creates barriers to safety and healing.

Debbs Murray
Feb 26, 20241 min read
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New Zealand Police planning to withdraw from family violence callouts
The New Zealand Police have advised the Police Minister they are planning to withdraw from attending all family violence/harm episodes.

Debbs Murray
Feb 16, 20242 min read
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Responding to counter allegations in family violence
Counter allegations are where both parties allege that the other is abusive. Counter allegations by predominant aggressors can be...

Debbs Murray
Jan 9, 20243 min read
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Woman and Child - understanding coercive control
This is such a simple 1-minute video that so clearly expresses the insidious, multi-faceted nature of coercive control.

Debbs Murray
Jan 9, 20241 min read
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Why coercive control gets worse during pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding
Why coercive control gets worse during pregancy, childbirth and breastfeeding

Debbs Murray
Oct 12, 20231 min read
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Coercive Control Videos
Two videos highlighting coercive control and its impacts

Debbs Murray
Sep 14, 20231 min read
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