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Reviews Released by The Centre for the Prevention of Family and Sexual Violence (Te Aorerekura Action Plan 2)
Several important reviews have been released by The Centre for the Prevention of Family and Sexual Violence as a part of Te Aorerekura Action Plan 2 - Second-Te-Aorerekura-Action-Plan.pdf . Keeping People Safe, Investing and Commissioning Well, and Stopping Violence were the first three priority groups and additional information can be found via the links below: Keeping People Safe – Keeping People Safe | The Centre for Family Violence and Sexual Violence Prevention Investi

Debbs Murray
Aug 102 min read


Tool to Support Response to the New Stalking Legislation
“Stalking is a pattern of targeted and unwanted behaviours that cause fear or distress. Stalking can happen in person, online and through the use of technology. Some behaviours may seem minor or trivial in isolation or be seen as subtle; however, harm can build up over time when behaviours are repeated and used to intimidate or control someone. A person may be stalked by someone they know such as a partner, ex-partner, family, whānau or aiga member, colleague, customer, clien

Debbs Murray
Jul 271 min read


Have your say in MSD: Family Violence Response services.
Join MSD to discuss Wāhine and Tamariki Support Services — the future direction of MSD-funded Family Violence Response services. MSD is committed to implementing Te Aorerekura, Aotearoa New Zealand’s strategy to eliminate family violence. This includes investing in services that support keeping people safe. Come along and learn more about how MSD is strengthening services for women who are victims/survivors of family violence. We want your feedback on the proposed future stat

Debbs Murray
Jul 271 min read


Stalking, Surveillance and Monitoring Guidance – including for Pets
Debbs recently contributed to a story through The Herald, that highlighted the prevalence of devices used to stalk, surveil, and monitor victims of family violence.

Debbs Murray
Jul 214 min read


Happy 5th Birthday ECLIPSE
To celebrate our fifth birthday, we are giving away a free ECLIPSE Entry to Expert (E2E) Capability Framework Essential level training package!

Debbs Murray
Jul 93 min read


"Slow femicide” – suicide through family violence victimisation
Leading domestic violence expert calls for the investigation of suicide victims linked to family violence and coercive control.

Debbs Murray
Jul 71 min read


New Stalking and Harassment Legislation Aotearoa New Zealand
𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗺𝗲 - new laws give Police the power to serve a stalking and harassment notice or charge someone with a stalking and harassment offence.

Debbs Murray
Jul 61 min read


IMPORTANCE NEW INFORMATION SHARING LEGISLATION
An important change to New Zealand’s privacy laws about the indirect collection of personal information is now in forc

Debbs Murray
May 112 min read


PETITION - Remove 'Good Character' Discounts
Please share this PETITION to remove 'Good Character' Discounts
Sam Troth from Road to Healing Aotearoa has collected 16,000 signatures on a petition to ban good character discounts in sentencing sex offenders.

Debbs Murray
May 111 min read


Do you want to upskill to the national capability standards for family violence practice and respon
Do you want to upskill to the national capability standards for family violence practice and response?
ECLIPSE offers all national Entry to Expert (E2E)- Essential Level capabilities across our workshops

Debbs Murray
May 83 min read


New tool to help gauge risk of elder abuse
A tool designed to help assess the risk of abuse of older people has been developed by the University of Auckland’s Dr Kathy Peri.

Debbs Murray
May 31 min read


ECLIPSEs C2/R3 Concept - Reducing Victim Blaming through the recognition of Primary Victim Resistance Strategies
There are many ways in which primary victims resist the violence that is perpetrated against them.
This may not look like kicking and screaming or fighting back or arguing - it could look like and sound like silence, or stillness.

Debbs Murray
Apr 283 min read


WANTED - Specialist Family Violence Trainers (Contract / Flexible Opportunities)
WANTED - Specialist Family Violence Trainers (Contract / Flexible Opportunities)
Location: Aotearoa New Zealand (travel required)
Are you passionate about actively increasing the workforce capability of the family violence sector and beyond?
We are rapidly expanding and seeking Specialist Family Violence Facilitators to join our dynamic, driven and heart-led team.

Debbs Murray
Apr 141 min read


ECLIPSES - Multifaceted Entrapment Safety and Risk Analysis Concept
When analysing risk and strategising safety in family violence, we have to explore all aspects of risk and barriers (internal and external) that restrict connection and engagement with services and support, and the possible reasons behind responses.

Debbs Murray
Apr 113 min read


Family violence and pets:
“Abusive partners will injure the pet intentionally or threaten to injure the pet.
According to research from Women’s Refuge, about 24% of women in abusive relationships had a pet killed by their abuser.

Debbs Murray
Mar 242 min read


ECLIPSES Coercive Control Wheel
For a long time, I've been wanting to create a visual representation of the realities of the intentionality of coercive control.
Unfortunately, coercive control is still actively mispositioned in practice response as an isolated, non-physical, often minimised dynamic, and as a direct result of this, lethality and risk indicators are missed

Debbs Murray
Mar 172 min read


The Dangers of Digital Abuse and our Children
If a physical consumer product was linked to the deaths of children, it would be recalled immediately. Social media should not be treated differently because it’s digital.

Debbs Murray
Mar 171 min read


IMPORTANT MOVEMENT: Child Sex Offenders and push for removal of "Good Character" for sentencing discounts
The Government is being urged to scrap “good character” discounts for child sex offenders at sentencing, amid mounting global criticism that it minimises the severity of the crime while compounding the trauma of its victims.

Debbs Murray
Mar 151 min read


DISCLAIMER - Disturbing Content Regarding Suicide and Family Violence
Man charged with manslaughter and coercive control charges after driving a woman to suicide through a targeted campaign of domestic abuse

Debbs Murray
Mar 121 min read


NEW LEGISLATION - Evidence (Giving Family Violence Evidence in Family Court Proceedings) Amendment Act 2025
We all know that legislation is not perfect - but there are some incredible forward movements in our judicial space at the moment
NEW LEGISLATION - Evidence (Giving Family Violence Evidence in Family Court Proceedings) Amendment Act 2025

Debbs Murray
Mar 111 min read
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